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so im 15 my boyfriend is 17 and weve been together for about 10 months now and I love him, but I feel liek so much is missing. We dont go on dates, we dont call each other, and its just kind of uncomfortable sometimes to be around him. I want us to do all this but I dont think hes that kind of guy. Hes a great guy, dont get me wrong, but I find myself being depressed because I miss doing some of these things with him. My friends who have boyfriends go on dates and stuff and I just get a little jealous. Its also been summer so I havent seen him for 1 months, do you tink thats the reason im freaking out?? please help me, just give your thoughts or advice, I just need some other opinions right now. thanks xxx
ok, here is my opinion, if you guys dont talk to each other on the phone, dont go on dates and its uncomfy to be around him sometimes, then from my p.o.v., its not love. I know it may seem like it, but communication is a HUGE part of a relationship...maybe you should try talking to him about how you feel..if he runs from it, then maybe he isnt the right guy for you. But to be honest its sounding like that now as it is. relationships are work. No matter how much you may love one another, it takes work. I would really try talking to him about it. See what he has to say.
thats what happened to me except it lasted 2 weeks. tell him that its not working out and youd like to become better friends. then after you guys know each other better try going out again if you both feel the same way. if it dosent work its prabaly not ment to be but if it does well you know...
some boys juss havent hit the maturity level and once he does then hell like doing all that stuff.
good luck!!
You're 15? You dont need to be tied down forever at 15. If you're not happy in the relationship, then leave... Why on earth are you with a guy you cant talk to and dont do anything with. I mean how is that even a relationship? It doesnt even sound like a friendship, let alone a romantic relationship
