I really want my tongue done!

You should probably put that on your profile, so that guys like me don’t go blabbing on uselessly! lol

I am out of the usa .. I live in the uk

You can’t.

Just accept that your mother said no, and wait until you’re old enough to get it done without her permission.

I think your kinda to young to get a tongue piercing I dont have any piercings at all!! and mostly thats what guys like in a girl! ;) lol I get a lot of attention from guys everywhere! you dont need something right now! if your mom wont let you have one you will have to deal with it! and mostly some dads let there kids do whatever the hell they want im not saying your dad is bad im just saying that if one parent doesnt agree or if they seem unfair their only trying to protect u! you will understand this later im 13 and I already understand it but you have to when your ready so just listen to your mom for now

Most states require you to be 16 to get a piercing with parental consent. Some counties within states even require you to be 18 to get a tongue piercing, as the piercing can be conceived as sexual in nature. So you really can’t get it done anywhere, unless you’re out of the USA.