Found out he is expecting more children than mine

im a 19 year old female. im also a college student and personal banker. I have a situation… I am noww 14 weeks pregnant. I just found out that my now ex boyfriend is expecting more children than just mine.he is expecting three more around the same due date time. im hurt..I dont know what to do.. please help

Answer #1

Hmmm,,, hes your ex he wont be their for you he probably wont be able to pay child support and your child will grow up without their real dad most likely,,, but if you can find a man that will raise the child with you the child can still have a great life and you don’t need him…

abortion is always an option even though I don’t agree with it.

Answer #2

thanx for the great advice colethky

Answer #3

There’s not really much you can do, thank goodness he’s an ex and not someone that you are still involved with. Make sure that when the baby is born you get child support right away…with 4 kids on the way he’s not going to have a lot left over for him. Give yourself some time to get past it…you will eventually. Right now you feel betrayed and that’s normal but it will pass.

Good luck

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