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How can I help make our family right again?

umm im a thirteen yr old and my family is tearing apart my brother is staying out every night in the park till midnight and we (family) have a lot of fights and then their is a lot of yelling and I just want to make our family right again because if I dont we will have to move far away to the filipines and I have a girlfriend who really needs me now so pls help me

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Answer #1

i’m 13 too (female) i’d say talk 2 each person individually and tell them how ya feel. i don’t know if it’ll work but it’s worth a try. hope ya don’t move away. that must suck. good luck with ur family and gf!!
kate : )

Answer #2

Actually, you cant legally move out on your own untill your 16 with court permission.

You dont want to do that anyway. School Counclers are a big help.

You can change the way your family works, but it has to start with you. Try not to yell anymore, just talk calmly. When your parents are yelling tell them to please calm down. Never show attitude and if your mad, show it in another way. Once your family sees how mature you start to act, they will soon see how crazy they are acting. Try spending time with your brother and tell him how cool you think he is. Show your parents and siblings that you care : )

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