I hate my life!

Well, the first thing you should do, is turn to God for guidance, pray and leave it in his hands. second structure building would be is to go and see a home or family consular third structure building I would get some time together with mom and sit down and really speak to her and tell her how you feel.

By the sounds of it she is taking out your dad’s stress out on herself and you… So take the time tell her that it is not your fault that your dad turned out this way. and you must also let your mom know that how much you love her…

It can also be the fact that you dad has gone to jail, and that in most family cases does turn your childhood around, so you must also concentrate on where you go wrong and what your mom doesnt like about it. She might just be scared by losing you too, by you mixing in with the wrong crowd and wrong things, and she’s showing you the wrong way to let you know she cares about you…

thats my point of view on it… Give it a shot

maybe it’s because you look or resmble your dad, so much that your mum isn’t able to think stright and know that you’re noting like him, but yourself!! I say the best thing to do is to help around the house, live YOUR life, and prove to your mum that you’re not like your dad… show her that you love her, and that you won’t leave her for alcohol, drugs…ect. show her you’re better than that, and most of all, talk to youe mum about the situation…and if she dosen’t want to, then don’t force it. as for your aunt, ignore her remarks, as long as you’re a terrific dancer, dance at heart, and make this situation in life, as something for you to want to dance better - look at it as an insperation! - of you wanting to live your life better than your dad!! I’m sure your dance teacher will see through you and know that you don’t resemble you dad, cause unlike him, you’re active and healthy!! =) hope this helped!!

try talkin to her and if that dont work I would try to find some way to get out of her house. what shes doing is emotional abuse I know cause my mom compared me to my messed up dad too.

here is for the dance thing… ignore wht your aunt said and show your dance teachers the best you can be. express yourself when you dance. have a good time. dont let urself think they are going to treat you diff. show them other wise. and if you know your not going to end up like your dad dont be worried by that thought! you r going to be like YOU!!! and all these people have great advice. you should talk to your mum and if your not ready to or anything… pray to god for guidence and strength. focus on what you want to do and you will be great at it!!!

I agree with the people telling you to talk to her. However, if that doesn’t work, (this might sound stupid) but aim high in life. Get a dream and focus on it. Work hard and if you do, you’ll accomplish it. And when you do, you’ll forget everything bad and your life will have a meaning. You just have to be patient. Good luck. x

Butterfly is dead right. Good advice there. You need to explain to your mom how your feeling. Talk to her. Good luck.