My mom got in a fight with her new bf. He said my mom was spending 2 much time with my dad then him. He is threatening to go to social services. We called the cops earlier and they called him but nothing helped he just keeps pestering. He says oh well just call me 2morrow when your not all pissed. So their going to court in 2 days. I need help now on what to say to the judge . Ihavent been in court since i got adopted.
Wait ... there's a lot more to this story than you're telling us.
Why would you be concerned about him going to social services? Is there something to hide?
As for court ... I'm guessing this is to set a restraining order against him? If not, you need to provide us with a lot more information. However, if the case is against the boyfriend, then all you need to do is say what happened ... not what you think happened, but what truly happened, even if there are details that may be condemning for your mother. Your testimony will be based on your ability to tell the truth, and if you can tell the truth even when it reflects negatively on your case, you become a valuable witness.
remember it , its not matter in which side you are.. with ur dad or her bf.. there is all fault of ur mom (i m sorry) after marraige how she has bf? she shud be with ur dad.. please change this mentality and culture..nature's rule says one person is only for one person.. now say to judge all truths whatever good or bad..
Not everyone follows your belief system, and it's rude for you to try and enforce it. Perhaps it's you who needs to change your mentality and culture ... this is the 21st century, it's time to step out of the dark ages.
Btw, "Nature's rule" does not say one for one ... that is a religious rule. You don't see animals getting married and having offspring with only one, do you? Nature never intended for it to be that way.
Best thing is to tell the truth