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How do I tell a teacher something?

Okey. I’ve tried talking to my teacher about some problems I had and she’ll make me write her notes. Then shell write back. I have somethin I want to tell her and show her and she wants me to write it down. I want to tell her what the doctor said about me beimg sexually assulted and me might being a bisexual. What should I do because I dont want to write it down I want to tell her to her face. Also the fact that going through all this about finding my sexuality and the assult is making me really depressed and sometimes its hard for me to eat and sleep. Like im crying myself to sleep some nights.

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After what you’ve been through I highly recommend you go see your school therapist or counselor. I know you trust your mentor (or teacher) and therefore you should ask her to help you find someone that can really help you resolve these issues. She seems to really care about you but she isn’t trained to help you deal with your feelings of depression and other stuff like a therapist, counselor or psychologist is. Since you both have agreed to talk through little notes, start by writing a note telling her that you want to talk to her about what happened at the doctors. Then she can respond whether this is ok or not. If she is willing, you could even ask her to come with you to your first meeting with the therapist or counselor. It’s normal to be sad abut what happened and this is why it’s really important to talk about it. It will make you feel better and help you sleep better.

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