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What is my friend trying to tell me?

Okay so I have a best friend her name is “ Jenny”. She is bisexual. On this past sunday she started asking me if I was bi but I didn’t want to answer her. So I would ask her why she wanted to know. And this is the second time that she has been doing this. She has been going out “supposely” for a year and a month. But I know she is just used to him there she is not in love with him… Everyone tells me that she has feelings for me but I”m not bi I’m straight as you can be… I have a feeling that she likes me because when she looks at me is like she wants to tell me something but just stays quiet… I hope that if she does like me more then a friend I can say no to her but not hurt her feelings… I really love her but as A FRIEND!!! What should I do?

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Answer #1

a relationship is a relationship no matter the gender. You’d have the same problem if it were a guy that you just wanted to be friends with but he wanted more.

You can’t make her just shut off her feelings for you. You can tell her you just want to be friends but there’s no way to know if it’ll hurt her feelings or not. that’s the risk you take. Hopefully things work out and you can remain friends.

Answer #2

will I think she really like’s you but I know that you are not bisexual just tell her that to stop talking to you and then just don’t talk to her and look at her? that is my idea???

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