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Should I tell my boyfriend of 2 years?

Well I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for just about 2 years now. And I have never orgasmed with him. Like we have done everything…and I just never have. I can do it when im by myself.. And the other thing is…I dont know if I should tell him that he has never made me orgasm. I’ve done something like really bad and I’ve told him each time we have sex and stuff, that I do “cum” when I really dont and its been like that the past 2 years. So should I tell him that I dont or keep hiding it and just pretending I keep having them when I dont. I know I’ve gotten myself into a big mess but I really dont know whether to tell him or not. So any answers would be great I dont know what to do. Thanks to all the people who answer this. Thanks a lot =]

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I don’t suggest telling him. You obviously know the spots that make you go crazy, so when he’s fingering you just adjust his hand so he’s hitting that spot you enjoy. He will notice you enjoying that spot because of your sounds, actions, etc. which will make him keep doing it. I know relationships are all about communication and you should talk about this stuff. But I mean… if it can be fixed just by you showing him, then I don’t see the need in talking about it. Just my opinion :)

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