How do I stop my mom and dad from getting a divorce.

My mom and dad fight a lot and last night my dad said he was leaving but I talked him into staying . I know that the next fight will probably be worse and I dont want my parents to be seperated. I love them both but I need them together. How do I stop them

Answer #1

I don’t know my parents have been divorced since I was two. so I dont know what to tell you

Answer #2

There are two ways to stop your mom and dad from gitting a divorce.The first,one is you can talk to your mom and dad and tell them how you feel about it and tell them that you want them to stay together.The next,one is that you can plan a meeting or set a trap that stops them from getting a divorce and make them stay together okay.

Answer #3

the best way is to sit down with them and talk with them and if that does not work them ignore them and they will come around I feel so sorry for you

Answer #4

you cant. You shouldnt try to make them stay together. Could you imagine living your entire life with someone your sick of? Just turn the tables and imagine if you were in your mom or dads place.

Answer #5

You can’t really “stop” them. But you can sit down and talk with them. Help them work out the problems they have been having.

Answer #6

This must be hard for you and I am so very sorry you have to listen to the fighting your parents might just need a little time away from each other and this does not mean they don’t love you but that they need to work some things out

Answer #7

Well this may seem like some thing you want to fix but really you can’t. Why would you want two people to live together if they dont love each other any more. Maybe just let them know how this may affect you in school work and other things like that just let them really know how you feel and be respectful when you speak to them . And try and help out around the house to keep the strees leavel down. Feel free to funmail me if you ever need some one to talk to you :) . Yours truly, Demika Ray

Answer #8

You know, you can help them. Talk to each of them and let them know that you want them to stay together. Pray to God. Even the worst situations can be sorted. Trust me, for four/five years my parents were both alcoholics and on the verge of divorcing. They didn’t. Sometimes things turn out fine. Get some family friend or someone to intervence.

Answer #9

from experience there is really nothing you can do if they really don’t want each other anymore and want a divorce I.e. like a parent having another lover and your parents are constantly fighting. after a divorce it will be a little rough as there will most likely be depression/sadness for some time… but in the end it will be better because you wont have see them fighting all the time. last thing to remember is that whatever the cause, it is not your fault and don’t blaming yourself for anything. I used to thought I could have been a better son to make things different but later on I ask my dad and he said no, he just couldn’t bear being with my mom anymore.

Answer #10

Well, speaking from personal experience, it’s usually best if they get divorced. im sorry to say that but I mean they are obviously unhappy together and things will be better for all of you if they do get divorced. Sometimes the fighting, tension and conflict is worse. Try to talk to each of them about the situation, if you can ask them some reasons why they don’t want to be together anymore, that might help you to put yourself in each of their shoes. Definitely pray (if you are religious). I will pray for you. I really hope it all works out for the best!

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