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How do I move out at 14?

Okay, im 14 I do not got along with my family at all, they tend to favor, they do not abuse me, but I do want to live with my aunt and she said it be okay but the only way I cant because my mom, iis there any way I can get around that ??

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Answer #1

Try to ask if you can stay there for a week or two. Then come up with a plan after that. Such as after staying there for a week or two then sit down with you mom and present her with documents so she knows you thought about it.

Such as: A list of what you like about your aunts and how it will help you. What you don’t like about being at home. Also, a letter to you mom explaineing that it is nothing personal so that you do not hurt her feelings Make sure you don’t accuse.

Don’t write things like “You favor my older sister” Write “ I feel like I am not always getting the attention I want. I know you are busy, but if I move in with aunt _ I know I will get a little more attention.”

Try to make a deal with her. Like you move with your aunt for the rest of the school year and see how it works out then you will all sit down and talk about the pros and cons.

Just remember to be mature about it, don’t say hurtful things, don’t point fingers, say please a lot.

Answer #2

Well I dont know what the situation is in your home or how intense the abuse from your mother is.Also I don’t know what exstream your aunts willing to go to. But If you guys went to the court and told them your mother is abusive and you do not want to live with her anymore you have your aunt that is willing to take care of you and she doesn’t abuse you and you feel safer with her.Im not a 100% sure it will work but I would like to think a judge would allow you to live with your a aunt.

Answer #3

Uhuh. You cant. Your aunt has no business saying you can move in with her. Your parents are not abusive and you’ve yet to state a good reason for moving out. I have yet to meet a kid who gets along with their family.

Answer #4

try going to your aunts house with all your stuff, (some day after school) and then refuse to leave. I say this because when something happens and you cant stop it or interfere than you just let it happen

Answer #5

They tend to favor? Meaby you are making mistakes to, Don’t be moving oiut because they don’t do what you want them to do, don’t move out because you don’t get to do what you want to do, do it because whit them your life is so bad it has no end… do it because you wont regret it latter…

I think meaby if you try taking this to court, if it is a good enuff reason to move out then your aunt can get costody of you… everything like this has to be done leggally.

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer #6

thank you 00baby_mama00 I will just do this thank you fer the help.

Answer #7

I tried that it really diddnt help, she refuses to.

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