Honestly, what can I do?

Okay so I went to my friends house with a few of my buddies, there was me, my boyfriend, 4 other guys, and 1 other girl. I was honest with my mom and said there was gonna be a few drinks here and there, but I didnt have a drink because she didnt want me to. So anyways, I was at my friends house, there was a parent there, and I also had a ride home by my boyfriends mom at 12. So my boyfriend called his mom at 12:15, and told his mom the directions to the house. At 12:15 my mom shows up at my friends house. I get in the car, and my mom starts yelling at me, asking why I didnt pick up my phone, which was because it didnt even ring, because there was no reception in the basement, and when I told her that she was like “ yeah okay whatever christine, you an inconsiderate b*h, and you dont appcicate anything, and those friends of your are all trouble, and that boyfriend needs to go for a flying leep (whatever that means)”, I honestly didnt know what to say, and than she starts telling me that im only 16 and shouldnt be out at 12:30, 1 at night, but I dont get it, I mean like I was at someones house, which a parent home, and I also had a ride home from someone that she knew, like I would understand if I was like out and around like in the town, but at somones house, with a parent home, having a ride home by the person my mom knows, I just dont understand. What should I do, I dont know if shes mad, but I was also suppose to go to a friends house tomorrow, my bestfriend, who I havent seen in over a week, so, now I think im not gonna beable to go to her house, for a reason I dont even know.

Answer #1

Yup thats what mothers do. The only advice is to learn to adapt to it and eventually ull figure things out

Answer #2

Wow! Yeah parents tend to freak out randomly like that (from what I know) my parents do that and my friends parents do that

Answer #3

Its common for mothers to worry duh! Your only 16, and your past curfew, and you dont answer your phone, of course shes going to get all psycho! thats how parents are, they worry to much even if you think they shouldnt. My advice is to let it blow over, she’ll get over it. As for your bff you havent seen in over a week, dont even trip, u’ll see her soon. my best friend lives in san fran, I live in fresno, I see her every few months, so sweetie get over it, u’ll see her soon. moms just get crazy, you should know how it is.

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