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ok this is the deal my mom doesn't want me 2 have a boyfriend but she all0ws my younger brother 2 have a girlfriend. I know thats totally like not fair.I'm 16 & I think im ready 2 b in a relation. So I still go behind her back & get a boyfriend but I often feel guilty. HOW DO I CONVINCE MY MOM IM READY 2 B iN A RELATIONSHIP!?!?
well... its not that unfair but then again it is... its not unfair because you can get pregnant and your brother cant... so thats a little more common sense because if you get pregnant then she would kinda have to take care of the baby and if your brohter gets a girl pregnant then your mom wouldnt have to take care of the baby. and its unfair because your sixteen and I think you should be able to have a boyfriend... but thats just me... so just try and convince her that you are responsible enough to have a boyfriend...
hope I helpedd =] =] Jessicaaa
I agree with 'jessica' on some points, her brother cant become pregnant, but he could get a girl pregnant and that still comes with a responsibility, I think if your little brother is allowed a girlfriend then you should be but dont forget she is over protective for a reason, girls are generally more vunerable than boys! Just be grateful she cares so much for you, when your next watching t.v etc just drop in convosations about boys and who you like etc.
wow that sucks. My brother who is like 7 years older than me had plenty of girlfriends yet, my mom said my sister and I couldn't date til we're 32(we're twins). But...she late me date this guy when I was 17. I talked to her and told her I wasn't stupid and that I wouldn't do anything stupid and just showed her that I was mature about everything and WHAMMO! she let me go. Do that, talk to her and see what she says.♣
Thats what I've been trying to figure out... But all these answers suck. Are their any adults with experience on this here?
