Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Parents & Family Questions

How can I convince my grandparents that I'm not like my Mom?

the one thing I hate most above all thing is when im arguing with my grandmother she always has to say YOUR JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!!.. first of all im nothing like my mother as a matter of fact we are total opposites I dont get drunk I dont do drugs I dont party and sleep with random men wich she does, I look nothing like her and im even more mature than my own mother because she has a mental delay ..she thinks like a 16 year old girl. and every time im right in an arguement my nana /grandmother always says that im just like my mother I dont know why and how and thats the only kind of arguement thats ever made me cry or feel like crap.
CAN ANYONE HELP ME

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

‘Grandmother, I am her daughter but I am my own person: I don’t drink - I don’t wild party and I don’t sleep around - I am my own person - please give me a chance and trust me’..say this calmly ( no arguing ) and hopefully she’ll come around..I wish you the very best !!

Answer #2

Hi mandycats, i’m sorry that your grandmother is fightin wit u like this. But one thing u need to know is ur not alone. See my mother doesnt do drugs or things like that but my mom has done some very good things for my dads mom (grandmother) and all she does is treats my mom like crap and she treats me like crap too because i look like her. The best thing you could probably do is just not talk to her for a long time. Thats what i’m doin with my situation. It works for me and after a while if your grandmother really cares she’ll call or come see you and say i’m sorry. I’m sorry if this doesnt help but it worked for me and maybe it will work for you too. -Bballqtpiechic

Answer #3

tell her’listen lady, I may be her daughter but I am my own person: I don’t drink - I don’t wild party and I’m NOT a slut - I am my own person and if u can’t accepet that then that ur problem not mine!!!

More Like This
Advisor

Parents & Family

Parenting, Marriage, Childcare

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

The Law Office of Timothy M. ...

Family Law, Legal Services, Attorney

Advisor

Eric M. Willie Austin Divorce...

Divorce Lawyer, Child Custody Lawyer, Family Law Attorney

Advisor

Scott M. Brown & Associates

Family Law Attorney, Criminal Defense Attorney, Personal Injury Attorney

Advisor

Scott M. Brown & Associates

Family Law Lawyers, Criminal Defense Attorneys, Personal Injury Attorneys

Advisor

Charles M. Green, APLC

Family Law, Divorce Law, Legal Services