Do I have good reasons to move out of my mom's house?

I’m 17, I’m gonna be a mom on Halloween. I live with my emotionally abusive mom. Im not going into detail about that. I’ve been planning to leave for a long time now. My boyfriend is the one who supports me. I don’t know why i live with her. He takes me to my appointments, he gives me money, he buys want i need. we want to be together with the baby, we dont want to be apart. He would only see her on the weekends but i feel like my mom wants me to be her eternal babysitter for my younger siblings. Even with my own child. She’s bi-poplar as hell. She told me she wants me yesterday to leave and then five mintues later comes in my room asking where i’m gonna put the crib!!I have a 9 o clock curfew…. but i’m gonna be a parent? She tells me i’m an adult but i have to be home by nine on weekends? I mean i won’t learn how to become an adult like this.

Answer #1

If your not comfortable and have problems then yes, you have good reasons. But if your comfortable and your mom doesnt mind you staying there then thats not a problem.

Answer #2

Will your mother allow you to leave? You may have fair reason, but unless you get emancipated, you have no legal course.

Answer #3

If you don’t like living with her and it’s possible for you to leave, why not just leave?

Answer #4

SImply because she says i can leave doesn’t mean if she calls the police, i won’t have to come back home.

Answer #5

She would look crazy to not let me leave. I mean she has been telling everyone she doesn’t want me here but she is bi-poplar and unstable and she could call the police but oh well it’s not about me, it’s about my baby,

Answer #6

If you do not feel safe you can

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