You could always try smudging the house, but your parents would probably know due to the smell from the sage. But if you have to I'd suggest getting a smudge stick of sage and lavender, of just using incense is fine but not as strong. You also need a feather. To smudge yourself if think the ghost is attached to you all you have to do it light the incense so that it smokes and doesn't have a flame. Then take the feather and use it to waft the smoke from the incense around you body. Start with your front and at your feet and work your way up. Then do your back, starting at your feet. It is very important the you imagine all the negativity leaving you and that it is being replaced with positive energy. You could say something if you wanted to, something like I call upon the powers of this incense to cleanse my body and spirit of negative energy, to rid me of unwanted attention and fill me with positive light. I use this incense for protection and well being. I thank the incense for aiding me and hope that it rids me of any spirits that have attached themeselves to me. That would be an example, there are as always many things you could say or do and I'd suggest google for more advice on smudging. Smudging doesn't have to be used just on you, you could smudge the room you are in or even the entire house. The feather if you are able to get one should be big. If you are smudging a room you must make sure that the smoke of the incense, smudge stick whatever, reaches into all the corners and the little spaces to allow the room to be fully cleansed of anything negative. This is just an alternative. You should also remember that as with anything like this you must put your faith in it, you must believe in it. If you don't it will not work as you will be filled with negative emotions such as doubt. I did this in my room and it worked for me. I haven't felt a presence there since I did this. I'd also suggest trying sheilding techniques if it has been harming you. Shielding is only a temporary solution while you figure something else out or until you try the smudging or whatever. Again, for more info either contact me directly or use google. I hope you can rid yourself of this spirit. Blessed be.
wow, that is really interesting...i am not sure it is a bad ghost if they are hugging you or holding your hand...perhaps it is a loved one that passed...someone you held very dear!
As for the banging, in my other apt, i had the banging of the closet door in the living room.
Then had things flying out of a linen closet near that like i once stated already a bunch of napkins that were sitting just fine seemed to get smacked over on to the floor.
another time, while i was on the computer, a bunch of my bills flew right off the desk onto the floor as well!
another time i was watching a movie & then the garbage i was going to take downstairs after tumbled (like as if I was being told hey do these things now not later!)
another time i would just get a weird tingly feeling in the back of my neck like as if i felt chills...
i would have to say I also had it when a reoccurring sweet musky unfamiliar scent was briefly passing me by same place near my computer...sometimes in the day sometimes at night...
oh and birds...on my window silt...or the fire escape...its like it would just hang there...and make noise til i woke up then flew away...it got to a point where a few came to visit...like 4...and the sec i woke up they flew away! funny thing is once i tried to walk really slowly & quietly just to life the shutter...saw one tilt their head & look right at me...like with the eye starring right at me...oh man i got shocked!
the best was the lovers...2 pigeons would hang out kissing & what not on the fire escape...was too funny...i would say to myself damn pigeons even gettin some...and me just missing someone...:(
coincidence...maybe...or just someone visiting...long enough to say hey get up! :P
Call it what you will...I believe it to be true...:)
hmm, i wonder if the ghost was haunting just the house or was it just them?!
Sometimes they just want to repossess the home because it was their home...imagine if it was your home, and something happened like god forbid some psychopath just started shooting up the block, or took a chainsaw & started literally killing the family you were in...(including you, again god forbid) and they took over your house...wouldnt you be p!ssed off...want revenge for that?! regardless of it is ok, or right to do but ion their case they are trapped between worlds...and wont pass on til they got their revenge on the person or people living in that home...unless taken cared of blessed or made to leave...they will not stop til they get people out of their so called home...is it right...absolutely not...does it happen...in almost every country to at least 1 home especially in England...& Scotland... Pennsylvania and many chateau's in France as well...Any place that has been around for a long time, like places in the south as well...where there are rich pieces of history that happened going back to a very long time period, might have a few skeletons in their closet...to be narrow minded as to say that they dont exist...perhaps you need to see it happen for your own eyes then believe in it with all your heart...remember you only know of what you see...that doesnt mean that it doesnt exist!
Never underestimate the powers!
Ignore all the ignorant pigs who say there are no ghosts. My twin died and ever since, I've felt half of me is gone, asleep when she started being with me AS A SPIRIT. [I dislike the term 'ghost'] I was finally awake like the numbness had gone.
When I want her to leave, I talk to her and explain that she can go and see the world for herself. Explain to it that you feel uncomfortable having it there, that you think it would be happier.
[This will sound weird if you're not into Pagan things but this is a real religious things so people, don't mock] I don't know if you're Wiccan or a witch [not the sterotypical kind] but if there was an evil spirit, there are some rituals or spells you could do to banish evil spirits or make a protective charm for your house. If you want any of these spell things, Funmail me and I'll see what I can do.
Just remember, there has to be a reason why it's there so treat the situation with respect. Good luck! Xx
its not impossible but is going to take time & patience
Considering the situation, i would rather have my parents know about it better safe then sorry!
here is a way i know i have Silvia Brown do it:
1. tell them to leave...and be gone over & over again in hope that eventually they understand that they are not wanted or welcomed there anymore!
2. I have always heard about stories where families got a priest or other higher religious person you worship(your faith that is...)bless the house and check for certain things to be sure they are gone...
3. another way I have seen would be to call a specialist that deals with sort of stuff...just in case it is not a ghost but something else... (better safe then sorry)
hope this helps.
trust me sweetie...if it is something else, your parents will be there to witness weird things happening & weird noises...flickering of the lights or doors opening & shutting for no apparent reason.
please believe me when I say people have seen & felt their presence...
I strongly urge you to get a professional to deal with this you cant do it alone...you will need help...call a religious person from your faith or congregation...what ever religion you practice...have them check out the house & the vibes...for your peace of mind...if they cant help you they will point you in the right direction....
its the best advice I can give you at the moment! :(
I've read some pretty solid advice, sage is really good for this sort of thing but I am curious, what has been happening that makes you think it's a ghost? Has it appeared or has it been moving stuff. Has it been trying to communicate?
Oh and if you are planning on smudging I would advice getting some lavender flowers and putting a few of them in your windowsill because the thing with sage is that after cleansing your house you cleanse it of all positive and negative energies, meaning that you need to fill it back up with positive energies if you do.
Get some sage and spread it throughout Areas in ur house when ur parents are gone. Read scripture out loud. Say "by the power of God I command you to leave my home you are not welcome." if it gets bad tell ur parents. Bring in someone to bless the house. If that doesn't work show proof that ur house is possessed to the church so they can send a priest to perform an exorcism of the house. Thats pretty much what I would do.
well it depends on if your the 1 it's following or if it is attached to the house...in the latter of the 2 ...have the house Blessed, not necessarily by a priest but by a spiritualist...or try to do it yourself which is really not recommended if you are not sure or dont follow the steps right but here is a site that i think will help![link removed]
keep me up-dated...i would like to hear how it turns out for you
well it depends on if your the 1 it's following or if it is attached to the house...in the latter of the 2 ...have the house Blessed, not necessarily by a priest but by a spiritualist...or try to do it yourself which is really not recommended if you are not sure or dont follow the steps right but here is a site that i think will help![link removed] keep me up-dated...i would like to hear how it turns out for you
i am not sure i would add myself in the term special...i am just me...simple, yet will agree to open minded & very in touch with the spirit world...higher beings & so forth. :)
glad to know i am not alone...i guess you have to see it happen to believe it...and I have first hand many many many times. (nothing bad just had me in an "oh my!" situation! :)
You have to show very solid proof that your house is either possessed or haunted. Often times hauntings won't go away and last for a very long time. They are almost harmless. With possessions/ poltergeists they tend to not last that long but can be dangerous. You must have liable proof like bruises or video recordings.
I didn't mean to sound boastful, as if it's a power one can possess, I just mean, how many spirtual people do you meet in a day? xD I meant we are special to be open-minded :]
I've had a couple of doors banged and so on but mostly just someone hugging me or holding my hand :] It's a strange feeling.
Once my friends house was possessed by something similar to what shes talking about. It used to come to my friend in the middle of the night and choke and beat her. Things would fly off of shelves. Her family eventually moved
:] I'm sure it's my twin and she just get angry cos I'm alive and she's not. But she's my other half so she isn't too mad :] I hope the bad happenings are gone :] I guess they like to express themselves in different ways xD
ok but sometimes i think it is somethin else.....like a demon.....im real scared...but my parents have other stuff to worry about and they dont see it as a big deal ....but most of the stuff happen to me:(
yes, good question...it may be that exactly! i myself have had 1 spirit follow me since i was about 17-18 yrs old & just in the past year i finely figured out why which a story for another day...
agreed...i guess i am more in touch with my spiritual side...others may not understand that because they might not be as in touch with their spiritual side! oh well...:(
i think it followed me by my other house i lived 5 yrs in cuz that house was really old and that waz the first time i ever believed in ghosts.
I know it sounds freaky, but try to make friends with it. See if anything happens
dress up as a ghost to scare them away.. cuz ghosts are scared of other ghosts
imm no it has been harming me i dont think it wants to be friends........
wow that is awesome, funmail me about it i would love to hear about it!
Oh well. I guess that's what makes us more special and open-minded :]
Ghost... Not sure.. I know there are spirits. Hmmm..............
its your imaginations that create a ghost... there is no ghost.
well that ur opinion i guess youll have evidence wen u die=]
i suppose you are right...and I hope things do work out.
good luck & please keep us posted sweetie!
ill problaly have a priest come..
there are no ghosts!!!!!!
ok ill try to do that=[
what has been happening?
yup ill try to record