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Ex boyfriends. How to deal with them? (need help)

I have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I have an ex boyfriend. He still ‘loves’ me but I don’t like him like that. Him and my mum are very close. He even calls her ‘his step mum’
I guess its ok seeing as he lives in wales and I live in derby but he said he’s coming down to stop with us sometime soon to spend some time with everyone. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to be near him because I have a boyfriend. It really angers me because my mum talks to him and if she ever goes down there she never tells me until the day she goes. He is my ex not hers and it makes me angry. I think I need to go and stay at my boyfriend’s when my ex comes down but I don’t know what to do. My mum never thinks about me because she thinks I deserve everything I get after dumping him because my heart wasn’t in it anymore. What should I do?

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Answer #1

for starters tell your mother not to get invovled in your relationships, its not hers its yours. and that comment she said isnt very nice, as ther eis probably more to the story than you told her. As for your Ex, tell him you have a boyfriend, when you next see him you should say ‘ If you really do love me, you will respect my decision that I dont want to be with’ if he really does ‘love’ then he want you to be happy. or he may be jealous as you have someone new and will do anything to ruin it, dont let him. stand your ground with him and your mother.

Answer #2

I would just say too him that to leave you alone and just to move on and tell him that your wid some-one else and you dont wont him coming and ruining everything for him. And tell your mum that you dont want to go back to him because if havent realised im with some-one else.

Tell him straight off to go away and just to find some one else and not to keep calling your family because it starts to bug you.

Next time he rings tell him to leave you alone because your wayy too clingy and you just want him to leave you alone so you can be happy with yah other lad xxx

Answer #3

tell her to f off

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