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My ex needs to calm down...please help!

K my ex and I are still really close friends and we still have some feelings for eachother but we cant be together…one of my friends who is kinda his friend has been hitting on me and my ex has been making a big deal out of it…I have it under control but my ex doesn’t think so…what can I tell him to make him calm down?

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Answer #1

He is your ex, not your boyfriend, so you are free to do whatever you want with whomever. Its none of his business!

Why is it that you two cant be together?

Answer #2

um, he’s you EX, right? your a free woman to like who you like, when you like. why does he get to have a say in it? tell him its your decision and you both should move on.

Answer #3

Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.

The guy had pretty strong feelings for you and still does; that’s not going to change even if you can’t be together. Parading your independance in front of him with a mutual friend is going to hurt him. He may have no say in the matter, but you do. If you care about him at all, respect his feelings. If the other guy’s a real man and any kind of a friend to either of you he wouldn’t put you in this situation. Nothing good will come of this, unless changing whatever friendship you still have with your ex into anger and hate is “good”.

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