How to get out of this house?

im 13 years old and I am miserable. I am a strait A student and excell in almost all that I do, buts its never enough. I live with my mom and my step dad, (my step dad hates me, he told me so) and I always mess up accordin to them. My dad says the same thing. I am a built in babysiiter for them, all I do is watch my 2 younger brothers and it is a large job beucase I also have to do my chores and cook dinner, and I can tdo my homework til my chores are done and I have put my brotehrs to bed. My mom and step dad and dad always tell me I am a moron, untrustworthy, slefish, liar, stupid, idot, etc. and it always kills me inside becaus ei try so hard. When they see me cry they yell at me and call me a baby. I want to move out adn live with my boyfriend and his family because his parents adore me and are always incredibly nive to me and said I am welcome in tehre home at anytime. Can I move out and live with them without my parents permission in the state of RI? Please Help, I am So Desperate!!!

Answer #1

okay for what the first person said please totally ignore that, some of its got it’s points, but some of it well just push it out of the door. first thing, don’t panic about your boyfriend and you lasting or not, I’m nearly 18 and I’ve had the same boyfriend since I was 12, you might notbut you might do too, you can’t just say your not going to last because you are young.

secondly, your parents should NOT be treating you like this, you have to be strong and brave and do something about it like your real dad, grandparents or relatives on your fathers side or anything, tell a teacher, just don’t bottle everything up.

I cannot stress this enough but DO NOT RUN AWAY. that won’t fix anything or how your parents act towards you, plus you could be putting you life at risk, not worth it at all, sorrry belindaleigh but that was STUPID to say. idiot.

make sure that everything you say is true before you go further with this to family, friends, police etc, even get some evidence if you can, like record them on your cell or something like that when there shouting at you, show it to who ever you tell so they know your not over exaggrating

good luck, don’t do anything slilly and stay strong

sarah-lou x

Answer #2

For a start - your boyfriend wont last, you’re only 13. You could always contact the police if they treat you this badly, but only if they hurt you, (hitting, etc).

Stop doing the chores, stop doing all of it, when they ask why you stopped, tell them you’re a teenager and you need a life, not to be a cleaner/babysitter. Hun, I dont care what they do to you afterwards, be strong. Don’t let them bring you down because you’re going to be a wonderful person.

But anyways, you cant live like that, you should be treated fairly. No matter how old you are. But obviously, try talking with them first. If nothing comes from it, well then contact another family to stay with for a while, then go back, if they start again, contact the police or child welfare or something.

If you desperatley need to, (and im not giving this advice for I might need to, you need to HAVE to do it), pack a bag with food, and a few changes of clothes, water, money etc. And run, as far away as you can. Even if it means going to your cousins in a different state and catching 9 trains and a taxi to get there.

has a feeling I shouldn’t of said that about running away

Answer #3

ok for what that other person said don’t go into this feeling your boyfriend won’t last… what you have to do is contact a person in your local cnty or city office and let them know your situation… that your parents are putting your education and your emotional well being in jeprody to do what as a parent is their job… the cooking and cleaning and caring for kids.. you need to start standing up for urself you seem to have an amazing mind.. use it in this situation to help urself out… and if you go to the cnt or city workers… then they will if they belive that you are need to get out cause your education is in jepordy or that you are being misstreated not just being beat but mistreated… then they may allow you to leave the home… there is not a gaurete ( I spelt that wrong) that they will let you stay with your boyfriend tho… best of luck to u

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