Cheating boyfriend

im not a forgiving person, I don’t know about you… but that’s something I would never fully forgive him for. that was wrong. very wrong, and especially since you’ve been together for so long and had 3 kids together. he needs to choose, you and his family, or her. and he should think hard about it bc there’s a reason she is his ex. funmail me if you’d like or need to..

Dear wednesday, You don’t…He told you what he did and that’s a sign that he was deliberately trying to hurt you. Just because you’ve been together 5 years and have children together doesn’t mean he can do this and you should forgive him. If you are truly interested in making it work with him you need to go to a counsellor. Not marriage counselling but counselling separately so that you can gain some self-esteem. You should be thinking more about how you can make a good home for you and your children without him rather then forgiving him. Sue…good luck

this is a hard thing to get over. it takes lots of time to gain trust back.is he truly sry for what he had done.is he planning on seeing this girls again. if you have been together for five years I dont know if you will ever get over this but for the good of the kids its probably best you stay together. but im sry I really couldnt give you any good advice I’ve never been in that long of a releationship