I'm not down talking teen moms (so don't say i am) just want to know do they think it's cute or what?My thought is what ever happen to enjoying your teen years ? Any thoughts,opinions on this subject ?
Well I have a mixed opnion on it. For one teens need to stop ideling people like kesha, or other celbraties who only talk about s'x, dr'gs, partying, ect (Not trying to diss them). Because the more they do the worse they seem to turn out. Where as I also respect alot of teen moms because they had the corage to live up to what they did when many could not. They know they can get rid of the kid and be done with it, but then there are those who realise that it dosen't have to be a mistake. This can be a new chance to fix themselves. I had a friend who was pregnaut at 16 and immedditaly quit smoking, drinking, partying, and getting in trouble. Now her daughters almost 2 years old and she hasn't been in trouble sence. The only real reson teen pregnacy is so frowned apon is because they arn't married. But my mom was 17 when married and had me at 19 and people still called her a whore. You can't judge someone for the choices they make when you havn't been in there shoes but I don't think teens should be having s'x unless they'd be willing to be with that person 18 years.
I think kids need to learn to be kids. I feel kids are having sex way to early. Teens are not know for their calculation or for using their heads, rather for their hormones, and that's just it, most do it because of their hormones and/or pressure. Now, while I feel that young persons should not be engaging in sex or sexual activity, I do respect teen mothers who go through with their pregnancies rather than ab.orting the child and taking the easy way out. That takes a lot of strength and courage. I find it sad that so many kids and teens try to grow up so fast, these teen mothers are forced to become adults to take care of the child. It's much harder for them as well, since they are not adults yet. So in the end, my opinion is; it's stupid to have sex at such a young age, but I respect those that keep the child.
I'm no judge but I do think that it can happen to any girl. It's not something to be expected, it happens. A cond*m can break, and you can't always count on the pill. What matters is how they handle the pregnancy and how they take care of their child. If she is faithfully taking prenatal vitamins, and eating healthy. Not to mention working or at least finding a job. That's being responsible. I can bow to that. If the girl is not doing any of those things and letting her parents deal with the baby, or her boyfriend then obviously she is not fit as a mother.
Yes well said i do give hands up to those girls that step up to be a mother. I give them a big high five cause they can get rid of there kid but some don't they step up. In my opinion i have seem girl who where know as the "party girls" get pregnant there life's do change maybe some girls need that. People do tend to judge when they see a girl pregnant with no ring on her finger i kno cause it happen to me i got called a whore awful names. But i think these young moms need to be educated these days cause kids are having sex at the age of 13.
Ya i know what you mean, I was at my step moms softball game and these little 11 yearold girls came up and started talking about how good there boyfriends are and how they wanted to try some new "postions" that they saw in a p"rn". I was thinking to myself how bad i felt for them. At least i know if i got pregnaut my boyfriend would be there for me and it sence hes almost 18 and cares about me. But when i looked at those girls i felt so bad just imaging how lost they'd be oneday.
I know what you mean little girls these days are way to advance for there ages knowing about sex by the time there 12. That just very sad my heart goes out to them,Yes that's good i'm not judging no one cause i'm not one to judge anyone if a girl is pregnant and the boyfriend steps up to be the man hey right on for them. In my opinion they should wait till there 18 but hey if they can raise a child on there own with out the help from mommy and daddy more power to them.
There's a difference between enjoying your teen years and ruining others. I mean, pregnancy is the start of new life and if that new life isn't wanted, then it gets killed. If someone is too careless to even use protection then it's a choice that is made and has concequences. If the child is wanted then it means the parents will have serious financial help and change future plans. It's not "cute" at all in my opinion.
I think they need to wait til they are atleast 18 to have sex.Hafe the girls that are 15 dont even want a child,but there having them left and right.And the woman who do want a baby cant have them and their seeing all these kids having kids and not even caring bout them,so in my book i think they should wait.Til they are old enough,and really ready to raise a child like it needs to be raised.
I think they need to wait til they are atleast 18 to have sex.Hafe the girls that are 15 dont even want a child,but there having them left and right.And the woman who do want a baby cant have them and their seeing all these kids having kids and not even caring bout them,so in my book i think they should wait.Til they are old enough,and really ready to raise a child like it needs to be raised.
Yes exactly my thoughts they have these children young miss out in there teen years and by the time there 24 they start acting like teens when in life its time to settle down.
I think they need to lives there teen lives... They dont know what they are missin. I miss those days. Im all grown up now.. but accidents do happen.
I think if thr were more s*x education, and less self esteem issues it wud change
I mean education by parents
