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Why am I crying still?

ok my best friend nanny died 4 5 years ago but why do I still cry she has a plave in my heart all the time but why am I crying still an not over my dead aunt

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Answer #1

awww… maybe it was just because you were closer with nanny, maybe it was cause you two have been through think and thin… and she was always true blue to you… keepin a smile on your face… it’s oaky to cry and it’s okay to remember her… treasure those memories in your heart!! =)

Answer #2

Because it’s always going to be sad. Think of all the good things about her and pretend that she’s just on a far away trip and you’ll see her again later on : )

Answer #3

It’s still early… and it hurts terribly when we lose someone. I stll cry for my father and it’s been almost 23 years.

It does get easier though as time passes. You’ll find that your crying time is not so public as it might have been in the first 2 years. There will be times when you can talk about her and laugh happily, remembering funny incidents. And then there wll be times when you think it’s so unfair that she was taken from you, or little reminders such as finding a photograph or going to a place you both enjoyed, that will set you off all over again. Don’t question it… it’s allowed. And don’t let anyone tell you that you shouldn’t cry over it.

Answer #4

MAybe your still crying because you cared for your friend. And that friend ment a lot to you.

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