Hey everyone I have a huge question. Recently my girlfriend...former fiance... asked me about a mmf 3sum... I told her no because I dont think I can handle her having sex with another guy... but heres the twisted part to this relationship... see I cheated on her 2 years ago... and I regret doing it... a lot... my relationship has been nothing but arguing since then... and she let me do a 3sum with her friend and her but we didnt go all the way and shes thinking its unfair... so what should I do? Should I swallow my pride and go through with it even though it might destroy our relationship... or should I just not go through it? please help!!!
I learned a very hard lesson with this question --- One that ended a 24 year old marriage, broke up my family and cost us our home. My wife wanted to do a MMF 3some and at first the fantasies was great but once real life kicked in and seeing another man having sex with the woman I was in love with broke my heart. I could not keep an erection and later on I told my wife I never wanted to do it again. So she went out behind my back and was having an affair with this guy. Now our home is gone and our marriage is over and there will never be any trust between us again. Ask your self this one question "IS IT WORTH IT, COULD THIS BREAK US APART --- HOW IS IT MAKINGING ANYTHING BETTER BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU IF THERE IS A THIRD WHEEL IN THE PICTURE --- ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND MAY HAVE ONE THING IN MIND BUT THE 3RD PERSON MAY COME INTO THIS WITH THE THOUGHT WHAT’S GOOD FOR HIMSELF --- HE WILL HAVE NO CARES FOR YOU OR YOUR RELATIONSHIP" I think the fantasy is better then the real thing. --- DO NOT DO IT!!!
I would... but I dont know because she found this guy that wants to have the 3sum with us at her college... hes 19, bisexual, and a virgin... but I dont like him at all and I dont feel right about it... I mean when she told me about it my heart just stopped, and I got real upset... I still am... because of this Im not engaged no more... my heart has been turned inside out and she acts so different then she did when we first started dating... I still love her but I dont want to loose her you know?... and I dont feel comfortable about another guy having sex with my girlfriend at all... I mean she was a virgin when I met her she gave everything to me...and thats how I want it to stay you know?... shes supposed to give me her everything like I've been doing for her <3
I would and I do... my girlfriend is quite hot in a rocker/stripper chick kinda way and we are both 24... we have a profile on an adult dating site where we find same age or ypunger guys to have threesomes with..they must be in good shape, attractive, nice package and clean and after about a month of video chatting we meet at a nice hotel and get it on.. we have done this 3 times in the past 11 months and it has always been lots of fun.. seein these eager younger dudes gettin it on with my big boobed hottie really gets me going..so I find the thing is to be open and in my case we only use strangers so that there is no awkwardness later on..on and condoms and lube very important!!
if anything it might make your relationship a bit better, I you still love each other, id say do it, just make sure not to get jelouse about it. as she let you have a threesome she probably wants a threesome too, to make it fair, ask her if shed be happy after it. and if thatll be it for the threesoms if she just wanst it because you had one, its likly that she just wants to make it all even between you, so I might be a good idea to go with it and let her have it then again though, its your decision, if you dont feel comfortable doing it dont, but I would guess that the relationship might be a little better in the end if you did
Update: we did it last night and now Im feeling different about her...I couldnt get hard at all last night because it was so hard for me to see him having sex with her... what should I do now?...
Considering you not only cheated on her, but had a threesome with her and her female friend already...you didn't see this coming? You're being pretty selfish.
