They are very small white bumps all over my vagina lips and are only visible when I stretch the lips out. I'm 13 so I really don't know what the technical term for them. U know the more fleshy lips on the inside. Im certainly not sexually active. These bumps cover all over those lips! :/ my mom says she has them but I am still really worried! It looks horrible down there because it is a slightly brown colour towards the end of the lips. Sorry it's gross but I'm so worried right now. Am I not normal ?
You're not sexually active so no need to worry. Some people have bumpy skin in some areas of their body lime armpits, or where you described. If you aren't sexually active there's no way you can get any of those nasty std' s or sti's. If you are very concerned you can always go get checked by a doctor.
And no worries about the color, pretty much everyone's genitalia is a different color from their normal skin, often darker in color.
I think it's normal. As you enter puberty and get older it's supposed to change to that darker color.