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Worried about a friend. . .

Ok so I have this really good friend and we have known each other for a while now and I am worried about her because she has a hard time like actually holding onto any good thing that comes to her, like for a while she lost me as a friend because of things she did and she is going to lose her current boyfriend pretty soon because he is getting really annoyed with her because she talks about her ex boyfriend a lot and he is getting tired of it and I am worried because it seems as though that she is a little stalker-ish to her ex boyfriend, and also she claims that you know she can’t trust anyone and that she is afraid of loosing her best friends but because she is so afraid of all these things she doesn’t know that she pushes her friends away because of how she acts sometimes, like invading privacy and constintley talking about her and her boyfriends like sex life like she is bragging about it or something.

I don’t know if I should confront her or not because I think she won’t listen to me because she is a little bit stubborn when it comes to hearing her problems.

help please I am worried that she is going to lose the people that love her the most

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If she’s doing something to you, talk to her about it. Be open, be honest, and try to be delicate. I don’t think anyone likes hearing that they’re doing something wrong, but I’m sure she will listen.

As for everyone else, they need to communicate with her as well. If they don’t tell her what’s going on, she will think everything is fine.

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