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Worried about this friend..what do I do?

I’ve been friends with this girl for about 9 years and she’s changing..a lot.

She started going out with my boyfriend’s brother a couple months ago..it didn’t last. He was 19. Now, she’s going out with this guy I don’t know. The bad thing is he’s 21.

She’s 13.

The worst thing is they’ve had sex.

I feel like I’m totally losing control of my friend. I try to talk to her but this guy has her wrapped around his finger. Any advice please?

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Answer #1

why would a 21 year old guy go out with a 13 year old girl? I guess he can’t find any girls close to his age, but that’s messed up! he’s probably only after one thing anyways. I would try asking your friend if you could meet him- you know see what he’s like. they probably won’t last long anyways. hope that helps some. :]

Answer #2

sometimes experience is the best lesson. I know you’re trying to help & yes you should continue trying to talk to her but make sure she knows you still accept her for who she is. even if you know that something bad will end up happening, when it does happen be there for her & help her learn from it. she seems pretty independant & thinks she’s making the right decsions but she’s only 13, she’s going to get fooled into doing stupid things. hopefully she realizes all the bad things that can happen & don’t annoy her about. if she ever tells you about her problems with her boyfriend tell her honestly how you feel about her being with him & that it’s not a good choice.

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