k if your boyfriend/girlfriend of nine months was talking to there friend of the opposite sex and they countinusly told that person that they missed em and calls them babe/baby and sets times to hangout with them alone..is that crossing the line? like do I have the right to be worried if he is doing this to one of his friends? he tells me that he has been friends with her way before he met me and they just hangout and talk but I cant help but freak out about it because he will be shady about it like when she texts him when im at his house we will tilt his phone away from me so I cant see whats being said
Hi again lol Pretty much everything you mentioned is crossing the line. I mean if he was only telling a long lost friend he really missed them and thats it, that would be a different story. But hes telling them he misses them, calling them babe/baby which is usually a term used between 2 people in a relationship, and setting up time to hangout with this friend alone? Thats definetly going over the line.Of course you have a right to be worried. I mean if they were friends before the 2 of you met, and they are just friends, he really should have no problem at all with the 3 of you hanging out together. Sounds like you are having a really tough time right now, if you think I help at all just send me a message if you have anything you want to talk about. I would be happy to help. Take er ez.
thanks (: im just gonna tell him about all the concerns im having and see how things go (:
