I just wanted to know, I am pregnant with twins and I was caught out intoxicated in the city center and the police made a referal to social services they came out to see me and said that they had no concerns and when they had spoken to my mid wife wich they have the case would be closed but I've heard nothing will they come and take my babies when they are born at the hospital? I've only done this once and not only feel guilty for it but now im scared that thais will happen will it?
'but no one unless they are abusive should have there kids taken'
what exactly do you think giving your baby alcohol is? if a woman gave her newborn baby alcohol in her bottle do you think that's abusive? so why is it different if the baby is given alcohol directly into the blood?
sorry, but you're obviously a few months pregnant if it was obvious to the police. which means that not only have you been drinking all this time (seriously, we're not stupid, no one just decides to get drunk once when they're a few months into their pregnancy), but you obviously were drinking pretty heavily if the police nabbed you. So you're pouring alcohol into your baby's blood. Yeah, you deserve to have the kid taken away. At the very least they need to start testing you.
well it seems like it only happened 1 time and if I were you I would just you know watch what I do. Sometimes it can happen and if they see that the perents are not a well pearson to take care of kids then that can also affect. But all you have to do is show them that you cant and that you wont give up.
I was close to getting taken away from my perents because of their ause toward me but they fought, they have to have detailed prove that you are not a bad mother, that you are an exelent one and your willing to go the extra mile for your children!
GOOD LUCK!!! :)
WOW THAT WAS A TOTALLY HARSH JLW82. Just because she was drinking while PG doesnt mean she deserves to have her babies taken away. Yes her drinking while PG was completely irresponsible and immature I agree but no one unless they are abusive should have there kids taken. I dont think they will I think they just had some concern regarding your mental status but if you contiune to follow the path of drinking while PG and getting introuble with the law they might. I would just stay away from that and keep your babies safe. Good luck
I AGREE WITH TY... IF YOUR PREGNANT AND DRINKING THAT IS PUTTIN THE CHILD AT RISK.. IF YOUR WILLING TO PUT YOUR CHILD AT RISK THEN HOW WILL YOU BEHAVE ONCE YOU HAVE THE BABIES, YOU SHOULD BE SCARED... I DONT KNOW WHATS GONNA HAPPEN BUT PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE.. THERE ARE people OUT THERE WHO WANT BABIES AND CANT HAVE THEM.. DONT PUT YOURS IN JEOPARDY.. CHILDREN ARE BLESSINGS!!! GOOD LUCK
Drinking while you're pregnant is a pretty stupid thing to do. Feeling guilty means you have a semi-working conscience, but it won't fix the danger you put your unborn children in. How could you be so selfish and immature? Maybe you deserve to have your babies taken away by Social Services but from the information you have given, it sounds like they won't.
by the sounds of it no but just be aware that sociel worker may come round on an unexpected visit. good luck xx