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Why won't my heart stop hurting?

I feel like my heart literally hearts. I’ve been thinking about someone imparticular lately and knowing that he now HATES me basically is just like killing me inside..because I miss him sooo much and I just don’t get why I can’t get over him. I reeally try to like flirt with other guys and like I won’t really think about him all day but as soon as I’m in my room alone (mainly at night) I start listening to this certain song that reminds me of him and I feel like crying my eyes out. I feel like sucha weirdo because I no he’s like completely over me so why the fxckk can’t I get over him?! It’s been months and I just can’t move on I feel like I’m obsessed…idunno what to do I hate the fact that he hates me, it hurts me to no that…help? Any advice …?

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Answer #1

Letting go has to be the most difficult thing to do, but time truly does heal all wounds.

First and foremost - start listening to some new music, or perhaps songs that help you relate to other memories that don’t include him. Remind yourself that you deserve better - if he hates you, then you’re better off without him (easier said than done, I know, but you’re trying to reconstruct your thought process here). Try to keep your mind busy…if it’s a feeling that overwhelms you at night when you’re in bed, maybe try reading a fantasy book that will help you escape to another land, and carry that land with you in your dreams.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you’re still young, and you’re bound to go through this a few times in your life. The important thing to remember is that it is survivable and it does eventually pass.

All you have to do is get through your days - one hour at a time.

Answer #2

I know what youre going through. Just try your best to think about positve things, and dont think you are obssesed. Youre heart hurts only mentely, dont think about “him” as much as you can. avoid anything thatt will remind you of him. Be strong I could go on and on about this all day, message me? Be happy! (:

Answer #3

ohhh yea..I know how you feel. As if your heart is readying to explode and you cant stop thinking of him. All you gonna do is try not to think of him,see him,and listening to music that remind you of him. You gonna be strong of who you are. You cant just let one guy make you depress the whole time. If you do then I bet you gonna turn into one depressing person cutting yourself and other crap sad people do. Try talking to yourself in a mirror asking “Why the fuc* are you hurting for??”..”Are your tears worth crying over one guy who wont forgive you??”..ask yourself that..be strong!!..Hope I helped..

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