Why is it that we want the things/people we can't have the most???
Because the person or thing always seems to be out of our reach and it annoys us that no matter what we do we cant seem to reach the person or thing so then people start to want that person or thing even if they cant it or them.
in my case it is because she was awesome - I loved her like there was no tomorrow.
On her 60'th birthday I sent her a dozen yellow roses. She will be 66 his june 24th. Do we not love them because that is who WE are?
Its cause we cant have it.
And since we cant have it, we want it.
if that makes sense.