Why does my mom not care that my brother hit me?

Yesterday my brother was hurting me so I kicked him is his balls. When my mom got home I told her he was hurting me after she talked to him she yelled/asked me is I kicked him in his nuts. Se told him not to hurt me but she grounded me for 2months! This is not the first time this has happend and I bet it’s not the last I don’t want to call the cops because I love my family… But I don’t feel loved can anyone help me please??? before I start cutting myself again!

Answer #1

Two words: Pressure Points

Answer #2

uh… how about some no? cutting yourself isn’t the option. how about just telling your mother that you get hurt, not retaliating and kicking your brother in the nuts, which could severely damage him, or telling your brother to stop.

Answer #3

how old are you and your brother? kicking a guy in his balls MIGHT bring complications you know.. :| that’s probably why you’re mom is kind of pissed at you. hope you two resolve your problems without hurting each other.

Answer #4

I really have no sympathy for you. Just deal with it, c’mon. xD Thats just how brothers are. About the cutting thing. I have no comment -.- Its really not going to get you answers faster just cause you add that.xD Anyway, just get over it, so what if your grounded? Its no big deal. Kick em in the nuts again, at least get a months worth.xD

Answer #5

First of all. Don’t cut yourself. It’s never the answer. And brothers and sisters fight, and beat eachother up all the time.. My brother and I would kick eachother’s asses all the time. :P But I’m not surprised that your mom would be a little angry that you kicked him in the balls.. Because doing that could really hurt a guy. I kicked a guy in the balls once, and he puked, and blacked out. :S But I don’t agree with the grounding. Just tell a teacher or someone.. See if anyone outside your family can do anything.. Good luck.

Answer #6

Okay look you had no right to do that!…because you could have really hurt him and made it to where he couldn’t have kids!. So the only time you do that is if its not play and they are really hurting you! and I am pretty sure he didn’t mean to take it that far. And don’t cut its so dumb go get a counselor to talk to so you don’t kill yourself by hitting something wrong think of what you would do to your mom and brother? it would kill them to think you killed or ever hurt yourself because of them.

Answer #7

if hes annoying you, maybe dont kick him in the balls. kick his shins or pull his hair etc, but kicking him in the balls could leave him infertile and thats probably why your mum/dad was so mad.

Answer #8

Are you seriously saying you want to call the police because you got grounded lmfao.. just deal with it !!! by writing that you sound like a spoiled little brat… but as far as the hole thing goes in my opinion your mother should have grounded the two of you . you were both in the wrong YOU just as much as your brother.. and im sure you werent doing anything atal to make him hurt your arm no ? Brothers and sisters fight all the time its just a fact of life your going to have to live with… Or you could just go to the police as you said… im sure they would find your story very interesting lmfao!!! Oh and if getting grounded makes you want to kill yourself you need help !! go see a pychiatrist… Xo:)

Answer #9

Wow cutting yourself just because you got grounded for 2 months??? BIG DEAL!!! At least you hit your bro in the balls isn’t that enough for you?? I didnt think so!!! Get help because come on who kills themselves just because they got grounded for 2 small months! And yes im saying this cause I’ve been grounded for 4 MONTHS!!! It’s not the end of the world so freakin deal with it!!! And grow up and stop acting like your little brother!!!

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