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Why do I feel like I hate him so muchh?

When I was little my mom never told my step dad that she was pretty much already prego with me form my real father and my real dad went to jail. she kept that lie from my step dad to this very day and so my step dad dont know that I aint his doughter like me sister is. So its been about 3 years ago that I found out that I had another father and it was very sad for me cause I lost comunicastion with my step dad and I wanted to be around my real dad but he seemed no to love me like he loves my other brother that he has with someother chick. So yeahh … My problem is that I guess my dad wants a divorce with my mom cause he is going to have a baby with another girl and well it buggs me so much I dont know what to do. I feel like I hate him so bad but yet I dont wanna tell my mom that it buggs me cause she will tell me just to forget him hes an ass and talk bad about him but yet I know my dad aint a bad person I mean he had a past in jail and alcohal but he changed. im super scared that my dad will forget me..In me I hate him but yet I don’t know what to do..

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Answer #1

These things are very tough. Sometimes there is nothing that can be done about them. Tell your mom that you have these feeling, and explain to her that no matter how SHE feels about your father, it doesnt matter to you. What matters to you is how you feel about him. Also, if you can, tell your father how you feel and your step father. Both of them should know how you feel and I belive, that if they are good people and loving parents, they will understand and try harder to show you the love you deserve. This will be hard and require you to stand up and make yourself and your feeling heard. So you will be vunerable, and you may not get the reaction you want, but you will definetly see a change in at least 1 of the 3. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!

Answer #2

you have to forgive.its not good to hold a grudge against anyone no matter how bad they have hurt you.this will make you stronger in the end.I wish you luck

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