Why can't I get over my ex, it's been 14 years?

I fell in love with a boy when I was 16 but because of family we ended the relationship and married other people. I’ve since divorced and remarried someone else whom I have 4 kids with. I’ve always been in love with my ex boyfriend and I ran into him a few years back, he had someone ask me to meet him but because he’s married and I’m married I didn’t even though I wanted to. I can’t stop thinking about him and I even dream of him. I always feel good after dreaming of him it’s like seeing him again. I want to be able to devote my heart to my husband fully how can I get over my ex? By the way my ex-boyfriends name is johnny and it’s been 14 years.s

Answer #1

fourteen years..

be honest with your husband. while you may not be physically cheating, you are emotionally cheating. and I know I may be too young to say it but before you do say anything talk to johnny? because it may just be unresolved feelings of a first love and you never know he may not be what he was fourteen years ago.

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