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Why am I scared/worried about my boyfriend.?

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a day! and we kissed yesterday which I thought was abit too quick so were going out 2day and im scared that he’ll want to snogg/use toungues but I’ve never snogged anyone before so what should I do,, I’ve told him I dont wanna but he wasnt taking me seriously but I dont wanna put him off me :S xx

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Answer #1

first off, kissing isn’t really a big step in a relationship. going anywhere past that at a younge age probably is a bigger deal, but kissing is okay. if you dont want to do it, dont do it. I know that in your situation you will probably still go with it if he tried because of the fact that you dont want to lose him. im going to tell you now that it might be a bad thing to go any further. you have to say no. seek avice from your girlfriends. they will give you better motivation than I could. however, im sure it will help you to know that in a year or two, this situation will just be a simple learning curve for you and it will not be a big deal at all. it’s a big deal now, but down the road it wont be. as for what you should do, I would say don’t go any further right now. if you want, you can talk to him about it. if not, you have to resist. if you don’t resist, just know it’s not the end of the world. you wont lose him if you say no. if you do lose him, you know that he was just using you and that he was an a$$ hole. good luck, hope I helped!

Answer #2

if he doesn’t lison to you then he’s not the guy for you. he should lison though and standding up for your self wont put him off. if he’s not the one don’t worry there’s someone out there just for u.

good luck

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