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Who! I cant behave! ?

Im only 14 but I recently had a baby! And dont tap back with some sort of bitchness or call me a slut because I knoww its wrong abd I didnt want a baby either but things happen that we just meed to get on with! I was determind to get back to school and get good qualifications and eventually go off to college but since I have been back I just cant behave! I try my hardest but I just get soo angry sooo easily and I have no idea why im never like this with my daughter charlie or with my mum it just seems to be at school and I have no idea why im realy really close to getting chucked out for good and I definatly dont want this to happen but why can I not control myself what sort of mum am I if im 14 and cant behave at school!? Surely there is something wrong!? Please please help mee! X

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Answer #1

Hun, you are a young girl who is caught in a very stressful, and very adult situation. And you are having a terrible time figuring out what to do … so of course you are acting out. You need some professional counselling, but I am afraid that I don’t know exactly what type. You need to talk to someone more knowledgeable so you can be there for Charlie as she grows up.. You might start by talking to the guidance counselor in your school; or with your doctor. If those sources aren’t available, you might call up a radio talk show called “LOVELINE”. The host is named Dr. Drew (he is a REAL doctor) and he has run the show for 25 years. HE IS GOOD. And sympathetic. His show is live from 10pm - Midnight (CALIFORNIA time). 1-800-LOVE-191 (You can use a fake name.)

Please get some professional help, for your sake as well as Charlie’s Good Luck!!

Answer #2

I don’t know what might b wrong butmaybe you just need sometime to adjust to things if you get mad try and remember that your trying to do good for urself and charlie it might calm you down

I LOVE your babie girls name btw =]

Answer #3

damm my causin was on the pill and she still had the baby,just watch out cause you have your life ahead of you

Answer #4

Im Already On The Pill I Just Cant Stop It And I Have No Idea Why But I Get What Your Saying Bput Charlie Bt She Has Made Me Sooo Happy Its Unreal!

Answer #5

u said it yourself…u recently had a baby you might not feel like yourself for a while you can also go to your doctor and ask them to give you birth control YAZ…it really works for moodiness

Answer #6

Well you could just suck it up and knock it off, you are the one making the choice to act that way. I know what it’s like to be frustrated though my kids are 2 1/2 and 1 1/2 so I had 2 1/2 month break and I was pregnant again, one thing to talk to your doctor about is post-partum depression. after I had my son I was on anxiety meds for a while it is very stressful having kids, you need to talk to a professional whether it’s a doctor or counselor, no one online is going to be able to help you. good luck with the baby!

Answer #7

Thanks ‘demon eyes’ I love it too lol and I kinda think I need help too I just dont get whyy lol thankyouu guyss! X

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