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am 15 and only kissed about 15 boys, whould you say thats a lot?. I mean like I have kissed each one of them so many times I cant remember. am not nice looking at all. am quite small and a bit chubby I wouldnt say am fat thou. boys keep asking me if they can finger me but am very self conscious about my body so I keep saying no. sooner or later am going to have to get on with it can you help me on what to do and what not to do?
'Only' 15? Gee, I haven't even kissed one. I'd say, you should hold out until you meet someone you actually like? And someone who actually lasts? You shouldn't be handing out kisses and letting people touch you, especially people who don't care. Wait for the right person. These actions were found to show affection and prove how much we like/love someone. If you're only kissing guys for a number value, then your definition is twisted. Find someone who actually cares about how you feel, instead of a boy that'll just stare at your chest and feel you up when he gets the chance. Move at your own pace, and if they don't want to wait, they don't deserve anything else from you.
WAIT!!! or you WILL regret it!!! trust me take your time till you find a guy you really really like or even love! and also wait till your ready to go that far!!! if you are self concious you may wanna wait even longer than normal 15's pretty young so as I said wait a while
Get comfortable with yourself before you go that far. Make sure you are genuinely ready and not just doing it cause you feel pressured, and yes you can feel pressured even by yourself. And yes 15 is a lot for being 15.
