What to do with a self-centred politician who I'm in love with?

I went out with a politician for about 6 months, and for the past month we haven’t seen each other. He kept saying he’s busy and will come to me very soon, which I soon got sick of. Even in our good days we only see each other once a week or once twice a week. He stood me up for Christmas and New Year’s Eve, I haven’t seen him since then. 2 days ago I texted him a message asking him to come by my place to pick up his X’mas present then let’s call our relationship off. He didn’t reply and yesterday I bumped into him in a club with his political friends, he said hi to me really coldly and walked away. I said hi to him like normal and with a smiley face on me, he didn’t seem to appreciate it. He peaked over to see who I was with a few times and whenever I looked over he turned his head away. He acted as if I was the one to have done something wrong, I was the one abandoning him. I feel really bad and really wants to talk this out with him. But he’s a man who doesn’t want to know about his own problems, like worshipers and way too self-centred. I asked him out for a coffee and he didn’t reply, I said we need to talk and he didn’t reply either. I really like him and wanna be with him, I just want more attention and care from him. How can I do that? What can I do to bring him back? What is he thinking?

Answer #1

Dear Chili, Number one, just because he is a politician means nothing..nothing at all. Think of him as a store clerk. If he is not showing you the attention YOU want to see, then chances are good that he really doesn’t care about you. Maybe at one time he did for whatever reason….trying to get sex from you,and you either gave in or held off so he wants to move on….he may have been rebounding from another relationship….or you may have simply filled a void in his life that he wanted at the time….Who knows….. The fact, is that you need to move on for you. Who cares if he is a politician.Who cares if he is self-centered..Who cares who he loves etc.. You can’t MAKE someone love you..I know it’s hard but once you make up in your mind (and you can) that you remove him from your life it will be way more easier for you…Try it and let me know. Familycoach

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