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What if I'm too self-conscious to get fingered?

I’ve been with this guy for almost 4 months now and I really do love him. and we’ve made out, and I’ve given him a hand job. but he wants to finger me, but I’m really really self conscious. I’ve told him that I am and he said that its fine, but I feel as if I’m holding us back. Every time I tell someone they tell me that it will be okay since he loves me, but I just cant seem to overcome my self consciousness! help!

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Answer #1

you should do it it feels really good! make him rib your clit

Answer #2

Ok I have the same issue only it’s more intimate than that. But before I got fingered I wouldn’t let a guy touch me. One day I told myself grow up and don’t let fear overcome you overcome fear and I just let him do it. Now I’ve got a lot more confidence and I don’t get nervous anymore. You could also try, if your very comfortable, have a VERY close girl friend do it first cause most of the time we find it harder to open up to the opposite sex than the same. In fact it was my best friend who fingered me first and now that I know what it’s like it’s a lot easier. I hope I helped.

Answer #3

the same thign happened to me! idk one day i just let him i figured he obviously does love me so i let him. he liked it and hes done it 2 or 3 times now. dont worry. plus youll like it too ;]

Answer #4

what is it that you are worried about, i mean honestly is it the smell or what. cant help you if we dont know. but i agree, dont do anything you dont really want to do.

Answer #5

don’t do something your not sure about, do not feel pressured into ever doing something unless you are 100% certain it is what you want.

Good luck

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