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What do you do when you fall in love with a married man
It's just not fair. Why is it we marry, and although we love our spouse, we lose those feelings we once had. And why do we have to see someone else being so attractive, so positive, and SO what we would rather have than our spouses. It's not fair. Especially when the other person is unhappy in their marriage too. We wonder "did I marry the right person?", "what would life be like with this other man?" and "do I really have to go the rest of my life feeling this way?" It is so disappointing. I would love a chance to step outside of my life to experience what life could be with this other man. Happy?
You break it off.
You are attacking his family unit. He has a wife. Think of her. If your in love with a married man, I can promise it wont work. In order for you to be with him, that would mean him being dishonest with his wife, making him a dishonest man. Do you really think that he will be a honest man for you? What makes you sure he will be better with you?
The best thing to do, would be to have respect for his family and wife. Walk away before you do serious damage to other people.
Run in the opposite direction. I fell in love with a married man. Once a month meetings for 2 1/2 years... he's still married and i've moved on. Don't waste your energy or your heart on someone who's married. Do you really want to be a bit on the side??? he's got you and his wife, his wife has him and you will have nothing. Been there done it. You deserve better.
I just love it when people ask questions... with obvious answers...
Regardless of what you WANT, people still have the ability to determine right from wrong.
some good advice is do not leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love
Tell him you'd be happy to hear from him again - AFTER his divorce.
It depends on that man's reaction/feelings.
Run the other way, he is already taken.
KEEP HIM AS LONG AS HE WANTS YOU
leave him alone
