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Hi, I was working with an engaged guy and we were really close friends. Many time s he told me that his relationhship with his girlfiriend is not so great... I always helped him to work things out with her...he had been going out with her for eight years... Just before about three months before the wedding we realised that we were falling in love... But I denied it because I was afraid... One month before his wedding he told me that he loves me.. But it was too late to change any plans and I also said that I will move on and wanted him to go ahead with his plans... I attended his wedding... After the wedding he called me and said that he is really in love with me.. And since then we were unable to stay without talking to each other a etc... Its very difficult because we work together... We are both in our mid 20s... Now he wants to leave his wife... Because he really does not have any feelings for her... I love him a lot... But I dont want to be the person who wrecks a family and break that girls heart.. But she is also not trying to work things out in the relationship.. And other people around also know that... I dont know what to do...I am so confused...