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How should I handle my love for a married man?

I think i am in love with a married man… We started seeing each other last june, and it lasted up until he moved away with his family in january.. I mean it was nothing special, I didn’t even think anything of him moving until his cousin ( who is a good friend of mine) went back to see him and when she came back she told me about how he had asked about me, what i had been doing, who i was seeing.. almost like he was checking up on me… I don’t know that sort of brought back all those feelings i had back and now I am in love with him… I don’t know what to do!!!

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Dear sheepie, In love or not…he is a married man and you have no business being involved unless he had ended his relationship with his wife. Turn the tables and put yourself in her shoes. He may have told you that she isn’t a good wife or she is a rotten mother etc. So then why is he still with her if she is that bad? Regardless he must finish what he started before he should move on. You both are now seperated and should stay that way. We love a lot of people in a life time that doesn’t mean we are meant to be with them especially when the situation is not healthy. Keep your distance, if he decides to leave his wife then perhaps you can entertain the idea of getting back together but remember what goes around comes around. Sue…good luck

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