What next?

Ok so this guy and I have been kinda hot and cold for about a year and a half, and I know it was probably stupid, but I had sex with him a couple of days ago. He was my first and I don’t want to be clingy or anything, I really liked it and I want to have more sex with him, but I’m worried that he just had sex with me and thats going to be it… We havn’t even gone on a date yet. I don’t regret doing it, but I don’t know what to do next. And I’m going off to college in the fall and I don’t want a boyfriend, but I really want to try stuff before I leave so I at least kind of know what I’m doing when I get there.. HELP!

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maybe you and him can both benefit from just having a sexual relationship until you go to college. that way it won’t be difficult to leave when you guys aren’t dating.

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