My boyfriend is 16 and a jr. and im 14 and a freshman in high school. We are both virgins and have talked about sex many times.. we know we love each other and he knows I want I 2 lose my virginity[dont know if ii spelled that rite]lol] 2 him. ii talked 2 him about takin the next step wit me and he said that he wanted 2. but everytime we have the chance 2 he makes excuses as 2 whyy we cant or shouldnt. ii dont whyy he keep doing that tho.. should ii ask him??.. or should ii just drop it and slow things down a lil bit? whyy doesnt he wanna take the next step with me??
I think he really likes you and doesnt want to ruin things for u. its okay let him be like that. you can asksince its so obvious. maybe hes not ready. if I were you id wait to be with him because then your're just gonna be like those other girls with a baby at fourteen maybe you wont have a baby but you wont be an exception to the girls who arent virgins and still should be
I was like that w/ my girl friend of 4 years.. For me was I wanted to wait as long as I could to have sex beacause the longer you wait the better it is trust me. And I think its okay to just ask him. Just be like " Is there a specific reason you dont want to have sex yet?" You never know it could turn out good
well maybe he really respects you and thinks your to young. you should keep this guy because most guys want sex and then when you give it to them they leave u
ask and slow it down both
ask him
