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My ex refuses to allow me to have any kind of visittation with my daughter outside of her home because she don't like my wife? I have tried to give her the opportunity to do the right thing on her own but she refuses. And of course this causes a strain at home with my wife. MY wife has even let our twin daughters go with to her house to show her that she is ok with the whole thing. she still refuses. what is the best route to take in getting visitation? would going to court be the best thing to do?
It could be that your ex feels that if she allows your daughter to come visit you she will end up liking your wife more and see her as a mom instead of her biological mom. If you ex still isn't married it could be a jealousy issue. I'm not sure how long it has been since the split up but she could still be upset about it. I don't see why there shouldn't be any problem with your daughter visiting unless some kind of argument has happened between your wife and your ex. I would give it a little more time, then I would probably take her to court. It's your right to see your daughter and have her around too, especially if there is no valid reason other than your ex doesn't like your wife or if talking to your ex in a rational way has already been addressed. But I think court is that last option of everything else hasn't worked.
Dear justmechee75, Take advantage of the court system...they are there for this reason. Call family court and talk with them as to who you need to talk with. It's time to step up to the plate for your child. It is your child who is suffering through all this and unless you become proactive and demand your rights your child will also recent you as she gets older. There are so many resources available to single parents...they are all a phone call away. Sue...good luck
I AM PERSONALLY GOING THREW A DIVORCE AND I HAVE TWO KIDS WITH MY EX. HE HATES MY NEW BOYFRIEND. WELL I SHOULDNT SAY NEW I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR A YEAR AND A HALF. BUT I THINK THE BEST BET WOULD BE TO GO TO COURT AND STATE YOUR CASE TO A FAMILY LAW MASTER AND GET SOMETHING WROTE UP STATING THAT YOU CAN SEE YOUR CHILDREN. =)
