what do you thank about this?

date her. your mom has no right. she has to get with the times now. there is no such thing as a different race in my opinion. we are all the same. if she can’t accept that, then that is her own problem that she has to deal with. there is NOTHING wrong with black and white people having babbies and do not let anything convince you otherwise. I lived in an all white family too and I only know like, 1-2 black people personally. they are completely normal. you shouldnt even be asking this question because you cannot judge someone by the colour of their skin. in your case it is understandable because it is the way you have grown up and you’re a little confused about this matter. ill give you an example: look at a teddy bear. when you see a brown teddy bear and a white teddy bear, is the first thing you notice ‘hey, that one is black and that one is white. they are different.’ or, ‘they are both teddy bears’. the first example is kinda dumb and whoever thinks that or says that would probably be hated for pointing it out. it is the same for humans. there is no difference. we are all teddy bears. the colour of our fur doesnt matter. go and date that girl. have babies with her. (well… you may want to wait to see if she is right for you, wait until you’re married for a few years and settled down and THEN have babies with her, but you get the point) regarding your mom, I don’t know if there is a father in your scenario or not but if there is, have him talk to your mom (as long as he isn’t in the same boat as your mom). if not, you can try talking to her yourself. if that doesnt work either, then there is nothing you can do about your mom. don’t let her stop you from dating someone you want to date. if she dissowns you, she will be frowned uppon by every single one of her friends. if she causes a scene about it, it will cause a lot of negative attention to her and she may be forced to be okay with it. good luck!