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Thanks for the advice about leaving him

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I completely agree with what you are saying about leaving him. It's just that I had only left the one time and have only threatened to leave the other times. When I have threatened to take the baby and go he either says go ahead and yells or he becomes nice again. I am starting to believe that the only reason I am still here is because he knows he won't get to see his kid if I move out of state. Then, he will have to go to court and he doesn't want or have the funds to do that. It is clear to me that he is still talking to this other girl. I have cervical cancer caused by hpv now and I'm pretty sure I got if from him. Sometimes I get too sick to take care of the baby and he still stays out all night with this girl. He says she is so upset and needs to talk. I know I need to make a plan and just get out of here. I can't tell him I'm leaving though or shit will hit the fan. Thanks for what you said