Hey I am thirteen and I havnt even started devoloping any boobs. And now I am getting bullied about it and I am really upset. I just want to know what I can do about this. ( I cant tell my mum, its too embarasing)
Thank you xx
I'm 17 and very flat-chested, just a 34A. I wear padded bras, and they don't do much for me...I hate wearing bikinis etc. I hate it all together. People have bullied me and I've cried about it, even my best friends find it funny to laugh about..and then try and re-assure me that 'big boobs just get in the way'. I have spoken to my mum about it, but as you said...she isnt helpful, all I got was 'dont listen to them etc etc'. I'm not trying to put you down...becuase you have more time to grow than I do..I thought I'd develop, and I was so desperate to do so...but I didnt, and I feel like im missing out...I feel like a little girl. I'm like you, I don't know what to do :(
chin up 8) xxx Sophie
I am flat too but just pass them buy don't worry about it! I would go to it mum ask her when she started blooming and you willprobley start then too! But I would not worry about the bullys they just make fun of pepole cause they have nothing else too talk about.trust me I would no I use to be one till one of my close friends stod up to me and said ian being a b... And it showed me how much I had been hurting others.so don't worry about it they will find something else to talk about.stand up 4 your slef!!!
im so close to just lockin myself in my room and not coming out and talkin! I thought they were my friends but even they take the piss but its the boys that are the worst now I wish I went to a all girls school!! I would buy pills or somethin but I don't have neally enough money!!I just go home cryin all the time! in p.e its worst with a baggy t shirtits just to obvious compared to wearin my blazer!!
im 13 not started my period, 30aa my best friends DDs!!!
I had the same problem hun...well just opposite. I was the first to develop in my grade (4th) and I was picked on horribly. Just wait your time, you will "bloom" hehe. And just look them right in the eyes, and be like "yes, I have no boobies, and your point is..." or just laugh with them even though it hurts. Like make yourself hystarically laugh. They normally shut up and walk away then. =)
im 13, gotten my period, and completely flat chested. I dont even have a bump lol. my mom is a c and everyone on my dads side is like a d. I don't know whats wrong with me, and im always made fun of. its hard knowing that its going to be harder to attract guys, but atleast my love will be true and not all physical
yor 13...youve probably just began to develop! puberty dosnt even start for some girls yet, and it could end anywere up to 18+ so dont worry, and the people bulling you are idiots. dont pay any attention to them and dont take what they say to heart...there not worth worring about
my friends have always had bigger boobs than me. they used to make fun of me for it. I finally told them that at least when a guy talkes to me he talks to my face and not my boobs. dont worry about it. youll be fine. or just get a padded bra.
just a litte advice from a mom you should never be embarrased to tell your parents anything no matter what .Thats what parents are for to help you through stuff like bullies I really think you should talk to your mom she will understand. :)
you probably wont develop them until your 15 or so. im not all that big chested either but its ok, dont let others bully you. If you have a small structure then your chest will probably be small too. thats ok because your in portion
I understand completly what your going though!!! I got a push up bra and problem solved :) hun even though it hurts you just have to keep fighting. xx p.s im only a 10A and im bout to turn 14.
WELL THERES NOTHING you CANT DO 2 MAKE your BOOBS BIGGER .BUT WHAT you CAN DO IS 2 NOT CARE WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR THINK ABOUT you BECAUSE THEY JUST DO IT 2 GET ATTENTION.
Sometimes gaining a little weight works, but not all of the time. Otherwise, I suggest just waiting. I'm overweight, and my chest isn't very big.
yh I suppose but she will just say ' don't worry, just ignore them ' and that won't really help.
wait correction im now 14!!
thanx everyone
