Wanting to have a baby at 13?

Do yourself a favour, ask for mandyloo’s opinion

My friend is 13 and is having a baby and she really wished she didn’t if I were you I would wait till you were out of school it would b the better decision and then you could become more responsable and I don’t think it’s illeagle but if Waite you will b happier too

its not illegal to have a baby at thirteen and you would still be able to go to school, but it takes a lot out of you. A thirteen yr olds body is not ready to with hold such pain and responsibilty an adults can, so it would be best to wait dear :)

I had my son when I was 18 years old and believe me you want to wait. I had a 4.0 GPA in high school and had to drop out in order to get a job and support my son. I have to struggle and work my butt off everyday to take care of him now so please do you and a baby a favor and wait child.

No it is not illegal and yes you can still go to school but after the baby is born you would most likely drop out to take care of it. I know you probably won’t listen to people telling you not to have one right now, but sweetie, you are thirteen years old, your body cannot take that condition. You getting pregnant that young could put harm in yours and the babies life. You shouldn’t even be thinking about sex at that age. Get through school, get a job, house, and enough money to support that baby. When I was 15 and 16 I wanted a baby SOO bad, I even tried having one.. Luckily it didn’t work. I thank god everyday for me not getting pregnant because I think about how much I would be missing out on and how much that baby would have to go through. Just think LONG and HARD about what your doing. Don’t be selfish, think about what the baby would be without.. It probably wouldn’t have a father, you would probably regret getting pregnant after you did and have an abortion or give it up for adoption, you wouldn’t be able to support it(at thirteen your not old enough to have a job). Just think about what your doing.