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Very sad, family members are leaving tomorrow :(

My brother and sister were here for around a month… And they’re leaving tomorrow… They filled the house up with joy, with their children, and family gatherings… The house will be so quiet… And this time, I learned so many things from them… This time was one the best moments of my life… I’ve changed so much during this month… Tomorrow they leave… And I’m dead… I never cried when I used to tell them good bye… But this time, I’m already crying!!! Or about to… I see my sister sleeping on the couch I my room, while I type this q, it hurts to know that tomorrow I won’t see her there, I will be all alone in my room, listening to nothing but the little fan in my room… And the cars passing by our house quietly just like it used to be… I don’t know what to do…I’ve hated good byes for all my life What should I do? I don’t wanna cry infront of them… They’ll feel sad for leaving… And that’s not what I want at all!!! please help me!!! Please!!! this is killing me…it’s like someone stabbed me and slowly taking the knife out, to make it more painful… :(

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Answer #1

I know it’s very disappointing to see family members leave, but im guessing that they’re old enough to move out of the house and start his or her own life. Someday you’re going to have to move out of the house too. Just because they’re leaving, it doesnt mean that they’ll never come back. I bet your siblings will return for holidays and birthdays. Also, if they’re going to live close by the house, you’ll hopefully get to see them often.

Answer #2

Missing someone is a very deep and poignant pain, especially when it’s family. The only thing I can suggest to help you, besides the passage of time, is to perhaps book a plane / train ticket to visit them sometime soon. That way you will know when you see them next, and have the ticket to prove it. You will be able to look forward to a concrete date when you’ll be with them next. =)

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