Should I treat my man any different than before when he comes home from being in jail 4 months?

nO . !!! it dOesnt matter where he been , it was hard enough for him to be in there ,so just be supportive and let him know how you feel . !

Just be yourself. You may inadvertantly treat him differently, simply because you don’t want him repeating his mistakes. Your eyes are more open now…his going to jail will have changed you both, even if it’s just a little bit.

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I have been VERY supportive the whole time he has been there. I’ve sent many letters, cards, pics, etc. and visited as often as allowed! (Twice a week) Even though my vehicle broke down and it’s meant traveling 5 hrs. just to spend a 1/2 hr. with him. I have stayed faithful the entire time also! He knows I love him very much even though we haven’t known each other even a year. I just want to be sensitive to his needs even if I don’t know if there are any special ones I SHOULD know about!

It depends on what he went in for and if your feelings have changed or not. My boyfriend went to juvy and jail for 8 months for sticking up for his sister. If anything, I love him more than before he went. So it’s up to you and how your feelings for him are.

It depends on what he went in for and if your feelings have changed or not. My boyfriend went to juvy and jail for 8 months for sticking up for his sister. If anything, I love him more than before he went. So it’s up to you and how your feelings for him are.

He was in jail fighting a false charge which he has beat and serving time on a misdemeanor. I do feel differently, I am more in love with him than I was 4 months ago! We have had the chance to be very close and uninterupted by outsiders! LOL I just want to be sure that there are no special needs he might have (besides his list of missed foods! LOL) that I might miss!

I agree.

It all depends on the reason for which he went to jail. If he is truly sorry for anything he did, then i guess you can try to work it out. Just don’t be gullible and take caution

well then yOu have nOthing tO worry about . !

I appreciate the comfort of your opinion. Thank you very much! :)

My feelings have only gotten stronger! My man is a bonafide war vetren hero, having saved countless lives. I am very proud of him!